Our daughter Taylor decided a few months ago to become a bone marrow donor. Roger and I are so proud of her.
Taylor Tallas, Chilliwack, B.C., Canada |
Candi: Becoming a bone marrow donor seems like a big step. Why did you make that decision?
Taylor: It’s sad, and a little embarrassing that it takes something so serious to rock your world before your eyes are opened. We are all so busy with our day-to-day lives, and don’t give it a second thought… until it effects you or someone you love. It’s something that I could have and should have done long ago, but now I feel it more than ever…Time to pay it forward!
Candi: Why would you want to donate to someone you don’t even know?
Taylor: I had such a feeling of helplessness when Roger was sick, I hope that in some way, I can help ease that feeling for another family.
Candi: Have you already been matched with someone who needs a transplant?
Taylor: Not yet, and I may never be, but somehow, being in the registry, I feel a little less helpless.
Candi: What does a donor have to go through?
Taylor: A sample of the registrant's DNA is taken (with a cheek swab) and used to identify a number of Human Leukocyte Antigens (HLA). The information is stored in the donor database for patient searches. HLA’s are genetic markers that are inherited from our parents. A number of antigens have been identified as important when matching donor and patient. Obviously, the closer the match between the patient and donor, the better the outcome will be for the patient. The patient's transplant physician will look first for a compatible donor in the patient's family and will arrange for testing of appropriate relatives. In general, the most likely family members to match will be the siblings. However, chances of finding a compatible donor in the family are less than 30%. If no suitable relative is found, a request is made to the Stem Cell and Marrow Network to search for a donor throughout the US and Canada as well as all international donor registries.
Taylor: A sample of the registrant's DNA is taken (with a cheek swab) and used to identify a number of Human Leukocyte Antigens (HLA). The information is stored in the donor database for patient searches.
Candi: How are bone marrow cells actually collected?
The second method is a bone marrow stem cell donation. This is a surgical procedure performed under anesthesia. A syringe and hollow needle is used to withdraw liquid marrow from the back of the donor’s pelvic bones. The procedure usually takes 45-90 minutes and it collects blood along with the stem cells from the bone marrow.
Candi: When will you donate?
Taylor: As soon as I am a match.
Candi: How does it make you feel knowing that a call could come at any time, or perhaps never?
Taylor: I’ve put it out of my head for now. I am on the registry, and that’s all that I can do from my end. If I am called, I will be more than happy to donate. On the flip side, if I am never called, I’ve got to believe that someone didn’t go without the stem cells they needed, but they found a match geographically closer.
Candi: How can other people find out about becoming a donor?
Taylor: I wasn’t sure where to look, so I Googled “bone marrow donor” and found these two websites, one Canadian and one American, either of which will get you the info that you need on how to become a donor and provide more details on the process of donation.*
*Candi's note: Blogger is not behaving itself, so I am not able to add the links for bonemarrow (.org) and onematch (.ca), even as plain text. I'll add them when I can, and you can use them as search terms in Google.
I've been mulling this over and honestly wondering if I'm as brave and unselfish as you, Candi and Beckie. And does anyone really want an old lady's well-used bone marrow? Oops, I think Candi already answered that question.
ReplyDeleteThe three of you are wonderful to do this and encourage others!!
Candi, you are doing a great job of highlighting the need for donors. I am planning a welcome back summer party in late June for Lisa and I intend to have a supply of donor kits available at the party...(of course you and Roger are invited). I paused to think about what Taylor said and I will add one thing. If I am not chosen as a donor at least I will know that my stems cells were offered to anyone who could use them and my failure to act was not the reason some went without.
ReplyDeleteSending you all my best.
M.M.